Faith

17 June 2012

Things going on in my life, which, if you're not at all interested in me may seem quite boring but here they are.


I recently did a facebook friends purge.  I was very upset to do it, because I hate losing friends, but for about a month now several people (as in more than one) were sharing information from my facebook.  Well, what's the big deal you ask? It's social media right, it's meant to be shared.  Well yes, of course it is.  To a point.  But when it's used to completely slander a person, when a post is copied and pasted, instead of shared in the correct manner, and you are then made fun of as the copy and pasted post is posted on the wall of someone who hates you, well that's just overboard and pointless drama making.  I detest drama.  After I removed said person from my friends list, I found out it was still happening.  Without a sure method of finding out who was now sharing my info, I ended up just purging my list of all who it might have been, and their close friends.  I did the close friends mostly because I thought it would cause less drama.  No one would have to try and choose sides and such.  I apparently was wrong, but there's no going back now and I once again feel safer posting on my facebook wall.


Homeschooling is going well, although long past the time I wanted our school year to go.  We're, as I speak, working on lesson 117.  The bad thing about having to "make up" time is that we end up doing lessons all weekend as well as throughout the week in an effort to get the school year over with.  I'm really hoping to try and get it over with by the time we're going to drive down to FL for James's birthday, but I'm not sure if we will.  There's a 170 lessons total, and I'm only trying for one lesson at least on the weekends, and two lessons a day throughout the week.  We have 53 lessons to go.  If we managed to do two lessons a day, every day it'd take 28 days.  Not too bad, as we have 35 days until our birthday.  I'm not sure when we're going to head down to FL though. 


Pregnancy related.  I honestly did not think it would happen.  The timing was sooooo off that I was pretty much convinced we wouldn't get pregnant and we'd lose our window to have more kids.  Apparently God had other plans. :)  I am so early though, and while I've pretty much told everyone BUT my husband I'm hopeful this pregnancy will stick.  I've just felt that God had more plans for our family.  More children ready and waiting to be added.  Our family is looking forward to the new addition we'll have, and hopefully so will my husband if he'll ever call me!


For those that don't know, my husband left for Korea June 6th.  He's gone for a year long hardship tour.  We'll be trying get him to do the 60 day early report to Fort Campbell, so that we can drop it down to a 10 month hardship tour, and that will have him coming back to the states (to Fort Campbell) when new baby is about (assuming baby is born close to my due date) 4-5 weeks old.  I will be in no condition to move us though at that point, more than likely, so our plans of my moving us from here to Campbell by myself, won't be happening.  I'll need Michael to drive as I still won't have had my 6 week check up and cleared to drive yet.

I think that likely catches everyone up on my doings.  I'll be adding some pictures soon of the new curriculum for the 12-13 school year, and I'll type out the plans I have.

I hope everyone has a blessed day!

5 comments:

  1. Not to be completely rude, but in doing so you deleted people who were completely oblivious to whatever was going on as far as what caused you to remove almost everyone! You falsely accused someone of talking to someone of speaking to someone she's NEVER been able to stand - let alone gossip to anyone about! And you made more enemies for yourself. I've been one of the few who constantly defended you and by deleting me because you think I'm apparently "in on the conspiracy against Crystal" that was not only a slap in the face - but a sign that you knew NOTHING about the quality of person or kind of friend I truly am. How sad.

    And you're right - there is no coming back from this.

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  2. Were you aware of what happened with Maloree?

    I also never said anyone else talked to said hated person, but that it got to her. There are people who still talk to said hated person.

    I was told by several people that copy and pasting my facebook was "no big deal".

    Sara, I truly was not trying to "make enemies" or to piss anyone off. I was trying to stop the drama in its tracks.

    I don't think I falsely accused anyone. I've stated I don't really know who it was that did it, but I can guess that what happened was that Maloree was sharing my page again, through others on my page.

    If having to choose between me and others would you really have chosen me? I'm sorry that you feel hurt, I do, but I really can't worry about that. All I know is that it had to be SOMEONE from ITAS and unfortunately, without knowing who that someone was I had to remove pretty much everyone.

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  3. I was fully aware of what happened. FYI - Mal isn't on my friend's list. So maybe before deleting a bunch of people you feel need to "choose sides", you should have looked into that part first.

    And as for choosing sides - again, you MUST not have any idea of the type of person I am. I don't choose. I let the whoever the issue is between hash it out. I don't involve myself in situations like that.

    So maybe it's for the best, since you obviously know nothing about me.

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  4. Ok, look here... since I didn't realize I was following & subscribed to your blog, and since you're talking about me on it, I'll defend myself.

    Perhaps you should have your accomplice give you more informed and correct info... because they got the WHOLE situation wrong. But it really doesn't matter because it fits your agenda for dramatics. You DID accuse another on the board of going & telling a specific someone about all the things on your FB, which you know is bull. Oh & this proves you don't know what really went on & instead of talking to me you jumped the gun... " but I can guess that what happened was that Maloree was sharing my page again, through others on my page" But honestly, its your loss and like Sara said, you've only made it worse on yourself... good luck.

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  5. Maloree, I have had TWO people tell me exactly what you did and what followed after. I felt no reason to go to you about it as you were copy and pasting my facebook! I trust the people who told me what happened, and I know they aren't lying to me. What you did was cruel and malicious. I know you were fully aware of Megan's hate of me for whatever reason that is.

    Sara, I'm sorry you are hurt by this. I did what I felt was the best for the situation. And again, I never accused anyone specific, but as a THIRD person approached me about my facebook still being shared I came to logical conclusions. I'm sorry that everyone is making such a huge deal out of this. It's not I did what I had to do and that's the end of it. I let you speak your piece now and I will not be approving any more comments for this post.

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